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To My Younger Self: Part 2…” You Don’t Have To Be Perfect!

 
To My Younger Self Part 2: Conversations with the Heart

This is the second episode of the miniseries, “To My Younger Self: Conversations with the Heart” in the Lynda: Rooted&Real podcast.

Lynda, in ‘To My Younger Self’ Part 2, conveys a soothing message highlighting importance of letting go and embracing imperfection.

She encourages us to recognize our inherent value and to find comfort in simply being ourselves, rather than striving for unattainable perfection.

To My Younger Self Part 2

You Don't Have To Be Perfect

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[00:00:18.21]We’re back to Rooted&Real,
[00:00:22.37]and now I’m speaking ‘To My Younger Self’.
[00:00:27.49]Today, I’m going to tell my younger self,
‘You Don’t Have To Be Perfect’.
[00:00:34.85]So as you walk this healing journey
with me, speak too to your younger self.
[00:00:44.53]Hey,
You don’t have to be perfect to be loved.
[00:00:51.61]I see you trying so hard.
[00:00:55.09]Straight As,
always smiling, always the good one,
[00:01:01.65]because you thought If you messed up,
they’d leave.
[00:01:06.69]That if you weren’t perfect,
you wouldn’t be enough.
[00:01:12.73]Baby, that’s exhausting.
[00:01:16.89]And it’s Not true.
[00:01:18.37]Not true at all.
[00:01:21.57]You are allowed to get it wrong.
[00:01:25.05]You’re allowed to cry,
to ask questions, to not know.
[00:01:32.29]You’re allowed to have bad
days and still be worthy.
[00:01:37.57]Perfectionism was your armour
because it kept you safe.
[00:01:43.69]But my younger me,
you don’t need an armour with me
[00:01:49.53]or with the right people.
[00:01:51.57]The people who love you will
love you on your messy days too.
[00:01:57.37]So rest, breathe, make mistakes.
[00:02:03.49]That’s how we grow,
and that’s how we become real.
[00:02:10.85]So my younger self, just listen.
[00:02:14.69]You don’t have to earn
your seat at the table.
[00:02:18.25]You don’t have to perform for love.
[00:02:22.37]You are already enough
right now as you are.
[00:02:30.97]Again to my younger self,
put the mask down.
[00:02:36.89]You don’t have to be perfect.
[00:02:41.09]You just have to be just you.

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Mon, 3 Aug, 2026
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Episode Creator(s): Lynda Onimbo

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