Picking Things Back Up Part 5

[00:00:17.58]Hey my people, we’re still here on Rooted&Real and this is Lynda. We’ve been
[00:00:24.91]picking up things after letting go. Today, this is the last one. We are picking
[00:00:35.16]boundaries up. Okay, we let people back in with no walls. Today, we Pick Up
[00:00:45.25]Boundaries. And you see, boundaries aren’t walls to keep love out. They’re fences
[00:00:53.21]with gates. You decide who comes in, when, and how. You decide which calls to pick
[00:01:07.92]and which ones not to. You decide which messages to send and which ones to
[00:01:14.52]respond to, and even which ones to ignore, okay? After being hurt, okay, you either
[00:01:21.89]build walls or no boundaries at all. And you see, both of those options leave you
[00:01:28.97]lonely. So today, we build gates. Say it as it is. ‘Unaambia mtu’ (You tell someone), “I don’t do
[00:01:39.68]last-minute plans.” – “No, I won’t rehash that argument.” And you’re not saying it
[00:01:45.91]cruelly, very calmly, but it is you saying it as it is. And don’t forget, ‘No’ is
[00:01:56.25]actually a full sentence. You don’t owe anyone an explanation for you wanting
[00:02:02.64]peace. People test gates, eh? What you should do is hold that gate once. Then
[00:02:14.71]they learn where the fence is. Picking up boundaries means you love yourself
[00:02:21.31]enough to protect your peace. You’re not mean. You’re not cold either. You’re healed
[00:02:30.35]enough to have standards. So, pick up those boundaries. Then rest behind them.
[00:02:41.85]And that’s how you rebuild after letting go. One thing at a time. I just want to
[00:02:53.08]say thank you so much again for making this journey with me. Remember, follow,
[00:03:02.64]comment, tell me what you want to hear and what you really don’t want to hear.
[00:03:08.91]God bless you all…