Hey my people, we're still here on Rooted&Real and this is Lynda. We've been
picking up things after letting go. Today, this is the last one. We are picking
boundaries up. Okay, we let people back in with no walls. Today, we Pick Up
Boundaries. And you see, boundaries aren't walls to keep love out. They're fences
with gates. You decide who comes in, when, and how. You decide which calls to pick
and which ones not to. You decide which messages to send and which ones to
respond to, and even which ones to ignore, okay? After being hurt, okay, you either
build walls or no boundaries at all. And you see, both of those options leave you
lonely. So today, we build gates. Say it as it is. 'Unaambia mtu' (You tell someone), "I don't do
last-minute plans." - "No, I won't rehash that argument." And you're not saying it
cruelly, very calmly, but it is you saying it as it is. And don't forget, 'No' is
actually a full sentence. You don't owe anyone an explanation for you wanting
peace. People test gates, eh? What you should do is hold that gate once. Then
they learn where the fence is. Picking up boundaries means you love yourself
enough to protect your peace. You're not mean. You're not cold either. You're healed
enough to have standards. So, pick up those boundaries. Then rest behind them.
And that's how you rebuild after letting go. One thing at a time. I just want to
say thank you so much again for making this journey with me. Remember, follow,
comment, tell me what you want to hear and what you really don't want to hear.
God bless you all...