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'Karibuni sana' (You're all very welcome). This is Lynda on Rooted&Real. So we're gonna do some hard truth today.

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'You Can Outgrow The People You Love'. Can you believe that? You don't hate them,

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you don't wish them bad, but you're not the same person you were when you met.

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Your values have shifted, your vision grew, and your peace got louder.

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Outgrowing someone doesn't make you disloyal, no. It makes you honest.

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You can love them from a distance, you can bless them, and then let them go.

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Not every soul is meant to come with you into your next season.

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There are people who are for a chapter, not the whole book. It will hurt, let it.

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Grieve the version of you that fits there at that point, and then keep walking.

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Love doesn't mean you have to shrink to stay. You can love them, and still choose you.

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So that's it. You can outgrow people you love. And that's also okay.