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Hey,
Good morning, Good afternoon, Good

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evening wherever you are. Back to
Rooted&Real.

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And I know sometimes you wonder
at what point and a lot of us probably

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the older ones we know exactly where
things went wrong but reflection is very

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necessary
not for anything

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but just so you know and like I said
before it's never too late to make

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things right. Yeah. So the exact point
where a relationship takes a wrong turn,

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it's rarely a single event,
but it's that point where

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there's no that safety emotional safety
for each other.

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It is the transition from fighting the
problem to fighting each other. One,

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silent treatment. Two, Passive Aggression,
Defensiveness is another one.

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And uh there's that place where
emotionally somebody steps out.

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There's Contempt,
there's uh Indifference and all those

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like we say, are Red Flags. Now
I think the

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place
that is of concern is what did you

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choose to do about it?
Did you walk away? Did you take off from

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that point of
of not being safe emotionally,

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uh, physically, psychologically, even
financially? Did you get away from it,

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or did you stay on
Again, you might be in that place right

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now
because I am,

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and it's not very
it's not very safe. It's not a very uh

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interesting place to be.
But let's navigate this journey

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together.
What next? Is it reparable or is it

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irreparable?

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Stay tuned, please, and share
your comments

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what you did and if you're there now
what you chose to do and I'll say this

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again
it's never too late to make the right

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decision.
Thank you for listening, and stay with

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me...