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'Karibuni tena' (welcome
back) to Rooted&Real.

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Again, this is Lynda,
your people, your personal person.

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Listen, 'Your Softness Isn't the Problem'.

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Don't let 'Betrayal' make you bitter.

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I know it's so easy to just keep
having that

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thing inside you that you've been
betrayed, 'unalia' (you keep

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crying) or you're cursing.

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But you see, they hurt you because they
couldn't handle your softness,

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your empathy, your loyalty.

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Don't punish the next good
person by becoming cold.

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And there are many out there, there
are many good people out there.

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The world needs people
who still care deeply.

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Just be soft.

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But with boundaries this time.

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And again, I say to anyone who has been
betrayed, Guard your heart,

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don't close it.

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Again, I repeat, Guard your heart,
but just don't close it.